tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176090541126516292024-02-21T08:02:27.428-06:00Hands On MomEquipping parents and educators to enrich the lives of young children through hands-on learning experiences and intentional interactions that build the foundation for a lifetime of learning.amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.comBlogger210125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-69019816423428164342013-05-11T14:47:00.000-05:002013-05-11T16:00:54.849-05:00Being a mom in 2013? Are we trying to do too much? <br />
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As moms of 2013, I feel like we are constantly moving and doing. We are always on call, constantly thinking about something or trying to plan what our next step is. We don't stop. Our day never ends. Whether we are a working mom or a stay at home mom, we are always"on the clock." We are also trying to keep our kids just as busy as we are or the next kid is. It is insane! </div>
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As moms of 2013, we are naturally looking at some type of social media on our phones, iPads or computers. We are posting on Facebook while trying to fix dinner or "play" with our kids. We are either taking pictures during playdates or dinner dates out with our little darlings, trying to document that day or we are pinning on Pinterest the latest project we found or a friend re-pinned It never ends and we wonder why we are so drained!<br />
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We (or maybe I am speaking about myself here) wonder why we can be so short with our kids or why we think they are running around like crazy. Well, because we are distracted. Our kids are dying for our attention, to have us one on one and be in the moment. </div>
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Just yesterday on our way to Atlanta, I was checking Facebook to pass the time (I wasn't driving don't worry). While reading status updates and news articles on Huffington post, I got so frustrated because my kids were bothering me while I was on my iPhone. Really? How dare they interrupt me! As I am perusing my iPhone, I move on to pinning a new decorating idea on my Pinterest board and a recipe that I probably will not ever attempt at that. Then, I am trying to get this Groupon for my next Pure Barre class before it sells out, and oh, I just saw a friend on Facebook that is posting pictures of her latest trip to the beach. What am I doing? I am in La La Land. Lord help me!</div>
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So I stop, give myself a reality check I realize the time I just spent doing all of the Facebook and Pinterest, I could have been catching up with my kids and my husband. I immediately start playing old school road trip games with my kids and dance to fun music to pass the time. Olivia, my youngest kept saying, "Stop, Mommy" as I bobbed my head to the music and my oldest, Alatia, just laughed and danced along with me. Some of you may be thinking, well yeah, that is what you are supposed to do with your kids on a road trip. Well, I am embarrassed to say, I don't do that all the time.<br />
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When I am on a road trip, I sometimes use that time to catch up on the social media, my to-do lists, calling people back, or returning a text, that I forgot to do earlier that week. However, in the end, I don't get much done because I am constantly getting on to one of my kids for kicking my seat, or I am having to get them more Goldfish because the gallon size bag I gave them was not enough.<br />
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Road trips are so hard and they can definitely bring out the worse in me, but I have to say, when I did take the time to start a game with my kids, crank of the tunes and dance, instead of looking at my phone majority of the time, it helped make the ride smoother and that is a plus in Atlanta traffic.<br />
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Now back to Facebook....we (or maybe I am again talking about myself here) as moms are naturally comparing ourselves or pressuring ourselves to be something that we are not. For example, we see a picture of our friend's kids in matching outfits, monogrammed or smocked, the perfect hair bow or headband to match (I attempt this all the time, see below). <br />
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We see moms Facebook posts/pictures of their beautiful family with their house in the background that not only looks perfectly decorated, but immaculate. Hmmm..any of this ring a bell? Then, we see another mom's post who just threw a birthday party for her son with inflatable bounce houses everywhere, super heroes to play with the kids and sign autographs, custom made favors with even the customized sticker on the water bottles and a handmade banner she made the night before to tie in the whole party theme. Finally, there is the post from a mom that not only does all the above, but she also home schools her kids, volunteers for everything and only cooks organic meals. The list can go on, but you get it. </div>
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Really, I am just worn out thinking about all of what we try to do as moms in 2013.<br />
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I spend my time photo dumping pictures of my kids on Facebook to keep the grandparents up to speed as well as keep a documentation for my kids. It's how I justify my actions, although I just think it makes me feel good as a mom (especially on the days I feel so inadequate)<br />
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I really do struggle with the question….am I making memories for my kids or for myself? I think I might have just had an Ah-ha Oprah moment there! </div>
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As I said, I have been feeling like a less than adequate mom. I have been less patient and have just felt like I have been in survival mode. By the time my husband gets home if he is not traveling that week, I am just done! I don't even want to talk to anybody and nobody wants to be around me, but it is nobody's fault but my own. I am on all the time and I am trying to do too much just keep up. </div>
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I have let Facebook and other social media distract me and I have let my mind wonder to comparing myself to others instead of being who I am . I am constantly pressuring myself to be the mom I am not, instead of the mom I am.<br />
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When I held my oldest daughter for the first time, I knew who I was then... a mom. I just knew I would get this mommy thing down. I mean how hard could it be. To me, it was simple. Take care of her, feed her, hold her when she cried and make her feel safe. Aren't those the top needs that we as humans all want and need? Love, nourishment and to feel safe? </div>
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My daughters didn't ask me to be the Pioneer Woman that now has her own cooking show and makes these amazing meals every day for her family. My daughters didn't ask me or expect me to be a fashionista like Rachel Zoe that wears heels like they are New Balance tennis shoes or be seen as some flawless celebrity mom, like Jennifer Garner. Although, it would be fun to be one of them for a day. Just a day! </div>
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When my girls were born, all they needed and wanted was my love. So simple and so overlooked at times. </div>
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As Moms of 2013, we can so easily get wrapped up in keeping up with the moms that we are not. </div>
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I know I will never be the mom that cooks organic meals. I am the mom that runs to Publix to get the already made pizza dough from the bakery, the ready made pizza sauce and bagged mozzarella to top it off. I am the easy mac and don't mind baking brownies out of a box kind of mom. Dark chocolate Ghiradelli is my friend. I am also the mom that doesn't mind germs so much that I will let my kids break the eggs, stir the brownie batter and lick the spoon. Don't worry if you have gotten brownies from me, I didn't do that for your batch. Give me credit! </div>
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While I am not the mom that gardens, I am the mom that will attempt a green thumb or get down and dirty and make some mean mud pies with my kids. I am not the mom that sews or can even put a button on for that matter. Sad, but true. I am not the mom that irons my kids clothes that great or can fold fitted sheets nicely.<br />
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I am the mom that takes the warm sheets and blankets out of the dryer and throws them on the kids to make them feel nice and cozy. Then, I am the mom that will build castles and tents with those wrinkled sheets (that I don't press) and then ball them up in a pillow case so that look half way decent in a linen closet. Do the cute baskets and containers I put the linens in count? Well, it works for me.<br />
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So as much as I want to be able to fold better, iron better, bake bread from a starter and be more organized, I am just not. I am not that mom no matter what you think or what it looks like on Facebook.<br />
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I am a mom that loves photography and fashion. I love taking pictures and dressing up with my kids is so much fun for me. The girls also love when I throw a dance party or do a fashion show with them. I also love to read stories to them and swing them at the park until my arms hurt. I love to cuddle with my kids on the couch and eat microwave popcorn while watching a favorite Disney movie. I just love to make memories with my kids and getting to be their mom. </div>
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Not everyone can be Martha Stewart or the Pioneer Woman. We can't all dress like we just stepped of a magazine, or have a house as organized and incredibly decorated like in Elle magazine or Real Simple. We can try, but in the end, we have to be real and true to ourselves. Because when we are true to ourselves, we are giving our family and kids such a gift. </div>
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Our kids will remember the mom that taught them to be true to themselves and that loved them for who they were, not for who they were trying to make them be with the matching hair bows they hated or that awful haircut you made them get because you thought it was so cute. I mean if you have seen me and my kids, we usually have bed head going on or a headband to hide it.<br />
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Moms, you never know what your life will bring, so be you and embrace you. Believe me, it is much less stressful to be yourself and so much more joyful! Your kids will notice it too. They will notice you being in the moment and not distracted with what you think you should be doing. They are not going to remember your Facebook status, or know anything about it. They are going to remember those real moments.<br />
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-19139115937833333032013-04-15T06:00:00.000-05:002013-04-15T06:00:11.904-05:0010 Ways to be a Happier Mom by Ann Voskamp...<br />
A great post from Ann Voskamp that we as moms can appreciate.<br />
<a href="http://www.aholyexperience.com/2012/08/10-ways-to-be-a-happier-mom/" rel="nofollow nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.aholyexperience.com/2012/08/10-ways-to-be-a-happier-mom/</a><br />
amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-25933727651815425812013-04-13T13:51:00.003-05:002013-04-13T13:51:52.325-05:00Calling all parents of girls, you don't want to miss this event!
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<span style="font-family: TTE2A5E888t00; font-size: 12pt;">As a parent of two very strong willed girls, I am always looking for books I can read to learn more about positively raising my girls in this ever changing culture. I am also looking for them to keep my sanity and not lose my patience. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: TTE2A5E888t00; font-size: 12pt;">Without sounding too much like my parents, I feel like my kids are growing up too fast already. My five year old daughter is already worrying about what she is wearing compared to what the other kids have on that day. Maybe this is normal now, but I don't remember thinking about that until I was in middle school?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: TTE2A5E888t00; font-size: 12pt;">I am constantly challenged by my girls (in a good way) to be a better parent and to try to understand how they really tick so I can help them development into more positive and secure individuals. So who to better help me and all you other mommies out there with spirited young ladies, is Sissy Goff, one of the authors of <u>All You Need to Know About Raising Girls. </u></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: TTE2A5E888t00; font-size: 12pt;">This coming, Wednesday, April 17, at 6:30pm, The Brentwood United Methodist Church will be hosting an event led by Sissy Goff on “Raising Girls." Goff wi</span><span style="font-family: 'TTE2A61718t00'; font-size: 12.000000pt;">ll focus on what is special about raising and building
a positive relationship with girls.</span><span style="font-family: TTE2A61718t00; font-size: 12pt;">All ages and stages of development will be discussed as well. We hope you come by to </span><span style="font-family: TTE2A61718t00;">learn more about raising girls in all the stages of their life. </span><br />
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Every time you turn around at Publix, Fresh Market or even at your local pharmacy, there are sweet treats galore! They even Easter candy out now! Thanks a lot Russell Stover and Godiva! Now, how are we going to keep our New Years resolution to eat healthier and stay fit? Ha! Well, we know you have to indulge into your sweet tooth every now then, but we also know the importance of teaching our kids healthy eating habits too, right?<br /><br />So as you are trying to not look at those yummy chocolates staring you in the face and tempting you to indulge more than you should, you opt to head for the more waist friendly side of the store, where you can find ingredients for some yummy, healthy Valentine's Day treats, and here are our favorites. The smoothies and cupid clusters are a hit at our house. Let us know what you like or if you have any recipes you would like to share.<br /><br /><i><b>Cupid Clusters (From </b></i><a href="http://www.recipe.com%29/" style="color: #888888; text-decoration: none;"><i><b>www.recipe.com)</b></i></a><i><b> </b></i><br /><br /><div class="recipeinfo">
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt;">1.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt;"><i>Love wrap</i></span></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt;"><i>.</i> Spread a whole wheat tortilla with a thin layer of light cream cheese. Top with sliced strawberries and roll up. If you like, you may also spread a thin layer of strawberry jam over the cream cheese before adding the strawberries. Or substitute banana slices for strawberries. If you help them with the slicing, kids can assemble these all by themselves.</span></div>
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-20016089886758126702013-01-08T06:00:00.000-06:002013-01-08T06:00:00.137-06:00Make a resolution to give more of your time...<br />
<span style="font-size: large;">"Make a memory with your children,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Spend time to show you care;</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Toys and trinkets can't replace those</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Precious moments that you share.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Money doesn't buy real pleasure,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">It doesn't matter where you live;</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Children need your own attention,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Something only YOU can give."</span><br />
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-74877790883100479712013-01-06T19:38:00.001-06:002013-01-06T19:57:58.859-06:00What's your Mommy Resolutions this 2013?<br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Happy 2013 Hands on Mommy friends! We hope you all have had a wonderful holiday with your family and friends, soaking in every bit of quality time with your loved ones and squeezing in a little rest and relaxation for you too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So to ask the traditional question of the New Year, what are your Mommy resolutions? Do you want to cook more for your family? Do you want to take more pictures? Organize your home or get in a better routine?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As we celebrate a new beginning, let's try to set some goals, to better ourselves and our family. At the dinner table tonight, sit down with your kids, talk about all the things that they accomplished last year, pointing out what they couldn't do the year before and what they can do now. For example, riding a bike, writing their name or learning how to skip. Then, talk about what kind of things you would like to do or learn in the New Year. </span><br />
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Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-11571585275591440712012-12-11T06:00:00.000-06:002012-12-11T06:00:03.711-06:00Making Good Memories by Managing YourselfDo your kids pick up on your holiday stress? You bet they do! <br />
Today we are sharing a great article from Laura Markham from <a href="http://www.ahaparenting.com/" target="_blank">http://www.ahaparenting.com/</a> that gives some sound suggestions from keeping things real at the holidays.<br />
You can read the article <a href="http://us2.campaign-archive1.com/?u=775b94b440ad73397931a9ad7&id=4dfa77946f&e=7b177abc6a" target="_blank">here</a> and sign up for the newsletter <a href="http://ahaparenting.us2.list-manage1.com/subscribe?u=775b94b440ad73397931a9ad7&id=45e38f2e1a" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
We aren't affiliated with Aha! Parenting--we just think they are great, and bet you will, too.<br />
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<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-51828019567402946402012-12-10T06:00:00.000-06:002012-12-10T06:00:08.557-06:00A cardboard box turned into a sleigh ride and more...<br />
With a little help from the UPS man, and the cardboard box from Pottery Barn Kids, my girls were entertained for at least an hour, while I prepared dinner tonight. Amazing what a plain ole cardboard box can do to keep your kids busy and productive.<br />
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In our past posts, we have talked about the importance of keeping your child's toys simple and how the more simple they are, the more your child is encouraged to use their imagination, social, language as well as critical thinking skills. For example, tonight, my girls pretended their beat up Pottery Barn Kids box was a sleigh, and then after they had their fun on their sleigh ride, they imagined they were at the beach and their cardboard box, was their "boat." So while I was preparing dinner, and the girls were having fun on their sleigh ride or in their boat, they were laughing, talking, and having fun thinking of so many ways or things they could turn this ordinary box in their latest adventure.<br />
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Lesson I learned? Don't throw away every box you get in the mail. You never know what this box can teach your child as well as you!<br />
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-89689128728199144462012-12-06T06:00:00.000-06:002012-12-06T06:00:17.278-06:00Tis the Season to Reading Aloud <br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">As you know, we strongly encourage reading aloud to your children at least 20 minutes every day. It is the perfect way to bond, as well as teach your child pre-reading skills. So let’s take advantage of the great holiday stories, old and new, and read to our children every night. This is another way to create a holiday family tradition.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><b><u>Our favorite holiday books</u></b>:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Twas the Night Before Christmas</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The Polar Express</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">How the Grinch Stole Christmas</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Merry Christmas Curious George</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Merry Christmas Biscuit</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Merry Christmas Mouse</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Olivia Claus</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Fancy Nancy Splendiferous Christmas</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Room for a Little One</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">B is for Bethlehem</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The Little Drummer Boy</span></div>
amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-48232590616424923902012-12-04T06:30:00.000-06:002012-12-04T06:30:04.899-06:00the importance of traditions...<span style="font-family: Calibri;">When I think of my childhood Christmas memories, I immediately think of my Grandparents and how they made this special holiday so memorable. I remember baking and decorating cookies with my Aunt and cousins at my Grandma’s house. Then, I used to always look forward to riding around with my mom and dad, looking at our town’s gorgeous Christmas lights and decorations, while listening to fun holiday tunes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I also remember the cozy feeling of getting into my holiday pjs after a warm bath and curling up on the couch with hot cocoa, to watch Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer. Then, as I got older, I looked forward to the traditional Christmas Eve candlelight service at my church, and then having a yummy meal afterwards, with my whole family. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">It is really the simple things that we remember and cherish, even as adults. So when you are thinking about creating family traditions in your home this holiday season, remember it doesn’t have to be elaborate. You don’t have to go, go, go all the time to entertain your child. It is your time and what you believe is special. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">We would love to hear what your favorite childhood memories are or what kind of family traditions you have created with your family? I know for me, I have carried the tradition of baking with my girls every week, and then just snuggling up with them each night to read them a Christmas book or watch their favorite holiday show, like Frosty the Snowman or Rudolph. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">There are other ways to create family traditions like doing holiday crafts together, like Christmas cards or ornaments, setting a certain date and time to decorate the tree, or maybe even volunteering somewhere to really encourage your child and teach them about giving and not just receiving. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">We look forward to hearing about your traditions and how they are special to you. </span></div>
amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-19823759436638768632012-12-03T06:00:00.001-06:002012-12-03T06:00:05.513-06:00For parents: Coping with learning differencesMost days of the week I receive a call from a <a class="zem_slink" data-mce-href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parent" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parent" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Parent">parent</a>
of one of my students. These calls tend to increase at this time of year and the start of the holidays signals the end of the school semester. Sometimes it’s a simple confirmation of our
schedule or a quick question. But often, when I get off the phone, I
realize that these families are asking questions, seeking reassurance,
and requesting advice for one reason: fear.<br />
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This is not momentary
fight-or-flight fear, but rather a lingering cloud of concern. Days have
become carefully orchestrated symphonies of schoolwork, after-school
appointments, homework, and correspondence with all involved parties to
ensure harmony. The <a class="zem_slink" data-mce-href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cost" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cost" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Cost">time-consuming</a> project of managing a child’s needs interferes with work, <a class="zem_slink" data-mce-href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_%28biology%29" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_%28biology%29" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Family (biology)">family</a>,
and personal responsibilities; time for relaxation, socializing, and
sleep gets stolen to make up the difference. Meanwhile, costs for
additional services strain family budgets and stress strains marriages.
The fear comes in when there is a glitch: an accommodation is not made, a
test is failed, or, worst of all, when the child expresses that they
are a failure. Parents, doing all that they can do, worry that it is not
enough.<br />
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<b>How do you help the child without getting swept away by the demands?</b><br />
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<b>1. Start with school.</b>
Establish relationships with the school personnel who are responsible
for meeting your child’s needs and hold them accountable. After all,
they are being paid to do this! This is accomplished by keeping a record
of all correspondence, and referring back to it regularly to see if all
promises are being kept. In a <a class="zem_slink" data-mce-href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/State_school" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/State_school" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="State school">public school</a> setting there are legal rights—get to know them. If you are in a <a class="zem_slink" data-mce-href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Private_school" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Private_school" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Private school">private school</a>, be sure it is the best possible fit and that there is a designated person assigned to manage your child’s supports.<br />
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<b>2. See your child as a whole person</b>.
Don’t drop all the extra-curriculars to free up time for
homework/tutoring. Encourage your child to be a friend (socializing with
others), an individual (taking classes in art, music, or sports not
offered at school), and a family member (doing chores and spending time
together). Without these identities, your child may view himself as
simply a kid who has trouble with school. Yes, you may need to pick and
choose activities with an eye toward balance, but it is worth the
effort.<br />
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<b>3. Set limits.</b> Decide how much time you
personally are going to spend fighting the battles, and how much time
your child will spend on work outside of the school day. Be realistic,
and stick to it.<br />
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<b>4. Seek community.</b> You are not
alone. Online forums can be a way to find support, but nothing beats
in-person relationships. Gather the courage to open up just a little bit
about the challenges your child is facing, and be prepared to find out
how many of your friends are facing similar issues or know someone who
is. Also seek out (or consider starting) a parents group that meets
regularly.<br />
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<b>5. Check in with yourself when you start to feel overwhelmed.</b>
Make two lists—one for what is working, and one for what is not
working. Celebrate the positives, and identify the people who can help
you solve the problems.<br />
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Parenting a child with unique learning
needs is a challenge, to be sure. But by establishing priorities and
supports you will make a difference.<br />
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This article was originally posted at <a href="http://www.heathergillum.com/">www.heathergillum.com</a>. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-13049765746778940732012-11-15T06:00:00.000-06:002012-11-15T06:00:02.060-06:00Make the most of your time together....As we are approaching this busy holiday time of year, let's remember that it is still all about the simple things that are children need most. Not the extravagant toys, fancy clothes or shiny new bike, but simply, your time. <br />
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There are so many things that we can do on a regular basis to give our children our time and also throw in some learning time too. <br />
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<strong>Here are some of our favorites:</strong><br />
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<li>Take a walk together</li>
<li>Fly a kite together</li>
<li>Host a tea party</li>
<li>Play dress-up or superheros</li>
<li>Cuddle on the couch while reading a favorite book</li>
<li>Color or paint a picture together</li>
<li>Play a board game</li>
<li>Play hide and go seek</li>
<li>Bake together. It doesn't have to be anything complicated. It can be slice and bake cookies!</li>
<li>Have a dance party in the kitchen before dinner</li>
<li>Have breakfast together</li>
<li>Make dinner together</li>
<li>Go to the park or play a fun game in your own back yard</li>
<li>Build a fort with pillows and blankets</li>
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We hope you will take a little time out of this craziness time of year of shopping for gifts, holiday parties and traveling and just hang out and enjoy your kids/family...the good ole fashion way. Our kids will not remember all the toys they had, but they will definitely remember the special times they got to spend with their parents. My daughter still talks about the time we played out in the snow at night and this was over a year ago! So special! amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-8022565195233014972012-11-13T06:00:00.000-06:002012-11-13T06:00:05.955-06:00Grocery Store Games<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Grocery shopping with your child may not be your favorite activity, but with a little preparation and a lot of patience, you can make this shopping trip fun and a great opportunity for learning. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"> <strong>Here are some ideas:</strong></span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Calibri;">On the way to the grocery store, create a memory game like “we are going to Publix and we are going to buy a huge piece of bread that can take us to the beach.” Make your descriptions really silly and elaborate, adding more items to the list and see what they can remember. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Give them their own shopping list with pictures and give them clues on where they can find the items. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Calibri;">You could play, “I Spy.” “I spy a red fruit that is round and juicy.” “Do you see it?”</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> Have them help you take the items out of the cart or let them help you put the items away when you get home. You can even go as far as sorting the items by type or size depending on the age of your child. </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So when you are dreading that trip to the grocery store, just remember these simple little games and just have fun! You will be surprised how much you can teach your child in just that little trip to the store and back. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"> <strong>Things to Remember:</strong> The grocery store is a rich resource for teaching descriptive words, reading, numbers, math, and memory skills. It might take a little longer with the wee ones in tow, but you are accomplishing so much more than shopping. </span>amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-31599391877904503162012-11-12T06:00:00.000-06:002012-11-12T06:00:00.961-06:00Examples of Gra-ti-tudes! "I am grateful for my pink bunny that made me feel safe during nap time today." <br />
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"I am grateful for my cookie I got from the nice lady at Publix." <br />
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"I am grateful for my soft coat that keeps me warm on cold, windy days at the park." <br />
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"I am grateful for my kids that make me smile and life each day"<br />
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"I am grateful for my mom and dad that support me and love me just the way that I am."<br />
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"I am grateful I have a warm house to live in, clothes on my back and food to eat."<br />
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"I am grateful for the sun shining and the colorful leaves on the ground."<br />
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"I am grateful for my child's school and the wonderful teachers that make them feel loved and create a love for learning."<br />
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-31767424582192287822012-11-08T06:00:00.000-06:002012-11-08T06:00:03.308-06:00Be thankful ...be present! <span style="color: black;">We know as busy moms ourselves that it is so hard to always be present for your kids or husband all the while you are trying to cook, get laundry done and maybe for some of you, do your other day job. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">We know that it is a constant struggle as we are trying to find that balance between life at home and outside of home of being a mom. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">As moms, we think oh I should have done that better. I should have listened more or I should have hugged on my kids a little more today instead of worrying about the dirty floors or whatever to-do list we had going that day. </span><br />
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We as moms naturally put pressure on ourselves to volunteer for this committee or event at our kids' school. To host a clothing or jewelry trunk show for a friend. To remember every friend's birthday and sometimes even their kids'. To make every girls night or play date. This list can go on and on! <br />
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We put soooo much pressure on ourselves not only mentally but physically. No wonder we are all rushing around like crazy people and forgetting to make those gratitude lists or forgetting to just make time for ourselves so we can be there for our family more. <br />
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We need to <strong>be more thankful</strong> for who we are now, not comparing ourselves to other moms. We are who we are! We have to remember to do what is best for us, our kids and family not do what everyone expects you to do.<br />
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<span style="color: black;">Parents, please embrace this time of year. Get those <strong>"gratitude jars"</strong> out and <strong>be thankful</strong> for those little moments that seem to pass us by in a flash! This year (2012) is almost over. What are you waiting for! End this year with no regrets and a huge list of what you have to <strong>be grateful </strong>for! Because... </span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: black;">“To be in your children’s memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today”</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">- Anonymous</span>amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-35143397086477160002012-11-07T06:44:00.000-06:002012-11-07T06:44:24.945-06:00Making the Most of Parent-Teacher ConferencesThe words “<a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parent-teacher_interview" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Parent-teacher interview">Parent-Teacher Conference</a>”
have struck fear in my mind since I was old enough to understand that
the very reason for a day off from school was for MY parents to talk to
MY teacher about ME in my absence. The nerve!<br />
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Now that I am a parent, I appreciate these meetings for what they
are: an unsolicited opportunity for two-way sharing between teacher and
parent. Smoldering issues (as opposed to big burning questions that
warrant an after-school phone call) that otherwise might not be
discussed are brought to light. Talking in person gives both sides the
benefit of reading the body language and hearing the tone of voice that
is masked by email correspondence. This is a golden opportunity for
collaboration, not to be wasted.<br />
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Time is of the essence, as conferences are typically scheduled
back-to-back in 20 or 30-minute intervals. Do your homework to make the
most of this limited time. Here are some suggestions:<br />
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<li>If you are attending this meeting with your spouse, get on the same
page. Don’t waste time in the meeting figuring out what you want to
discuss. Establish goals before the meeting.</li>
<li>Choose two or three priorities and write them down in order of
importance. Bring the list with you and share it with the teacher when
you sit down. This communicates both your concerns and their rank. The
teacher may want to jump right in to addressing your concerns, or may
have other things to discuss first. Go with the flow.</li>
<li value="3">But watch the clock. Once half of the allotted time has passed, it is fine to politely interject that you would like to discuss
your concerns if they have not already been covered. Equal time is a
reasonable expectation.</li>
<li>Be specific. If you are concerned about something, name it and claim
it. If you want something, ask for it specifically. If you are unclear
on something, get clarification. This is much easier to do in person
than after the fact via phone call or email.</li>
<li>Make notes during the meeting. Be especially careful to document
anything anyone in the meeting (including yourself) has promised to do.</li>
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In the end, if you are dissatisfied with your conference, you have
several options. One is to say, at the end of the meeting, that you
would like another meeting with more time. This would also give you the
opportunity to invite additional people (such as the principal) to join
you. If you feel that another meeting with the teacher will not resolve
your specific concerns, it is okay to move up the chain of command and
meet with a director, dean, or principal. Either way, provide a list of
your concerns prior to the next meeting so that everyone will come to
the table prepared to discuss those issues.<br />
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Finally, try to keep things positive. Intentionally or not, teachers’
perceptions of parents do shape how they treat the children, for better
or worse. Focus on collaboration for the good of your child and the
best possible <a class="zem_slink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Academic_term" rel="wikipedia" target="_blank" title="Academic term">school year</a>.<br />
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This post was originally published at <a href="http://www.heathergillum.wordpress.com/">www.heathergillum.wordpress.com.</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-34058886712284938022012-11-06T06:00:00.001-06:002012-11-06T06:00:01.134-06:00An Attitude of Gratitude"I am thankful for my socks."<br />
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So said my daughter when pressed to come up with something that she was thankful for, besides her baby dolls and her beloved "lamby". <br />
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Even very young children can begin to develop an attitude of gratitude. An easy way to start is by asking what they like, or what they are glad about. This will most likely be physical items (especially toys!) until about age four. <br />
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By age five children can relate to the concept of appreciating family members, teachers, and friends. At about this age, we started <b>asking our daughter what three things she was thankful for that day</b> as part of our bedtime routine. This has become a treasured part of our day, and, as a bonus, gives me a regular barometer for what matters most to her. It has also created some teachable moments for discussing the value of relationships over "stuff".<br />
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Remember to continue adding to your "jars" that we talked about yesterday, and create a attitude of gratitude in your child. amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-73317356224171583862012-11-05T06:00:00.000-06:002012-11-05T06:00:11.864-06:00Gratitude JarMy daughter came home with a "blessings jar" from Sunday School the other day and I thought what a wonderful idea to remind us to be grateful for what we have and for the people in our lives. We naturally get so busy going from school to ballet or soccer practice, that we tend to forget and stop and just be thankful for what we have. For our friends, our family, our pets, our homes, where we live, good neighbors, the sweet cashier at Publix and I could go on. <br />
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My daughter's jar was simply decorated but was filled with color paper with drawings of what she is grateful for, such as special items and names of people that my daughter adores. She listed her family members, friends, her special lovies and even her dog, Tucker.<br />
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If you knew my daughter and her relationship with our dog, you would be shocked she even mentioned him as a blessing! She is not a fan of our beagle/pug mix at the moment. He is our sock bandit and loves to sneak in some Goldfish or whatever he can nab from the hands of my little sweet peas. <br />
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So I digress... sorry! My point is that I have been inspired by this "blessings jar" and want to continue a jar for our whole family! I am going to name it our "gratitude jar" in the spirit of the season and every day as a family write down or even draw what we are grateful for that day. <br />
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Again, keep it simple. It doesn't have to take a lot of time. It is just the thoughts you put in it. I feel that the more we acknowledge our blessings and make an effort to be more grateful for them, then we are less likely to be negative or talk about what we don't have. <br />
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So are you with me Hands on Mom friends? Let's start a "gratitude jar"today and continue to count our blessings, no matter how little you might think they are. <br />
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Remember to include you children by letting them decorate the jar. The more you get them involved, the more excited they will be to participate in this project. <br />
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Examples of jars could be an apothocary jar (see below), a juice jar, hurricane glass candle holder, or even an empty plastic animal cracker jar. Get creative and just have fun with it. You will be surprised the effect it will have not only on you, but your whole family as you enjoy the spirit of the season. <br />
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After you decorate your jar, we would love for you to share pictures of them to inspire more families to get on board of being more grateful of our many blessings! <br />
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-6026119994786892132012-11-01T06:43:00.001-05:002012-11-01T06:43:53.296-05:003 Weeks until Thanksgiving-and plenty of time for new traditionsThree weeks until Thanksgiving.<br />
(insert deep breath here, possibly accompanied by a sigh)<br />
As parents of young children, we know that the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas are the most wonderful and most busy time of the year.<br />
So here's a thought.<br />
It takes 21 days to make a new habit (so they say).<br />
So, starting today, choose one thing to do every day at home with the kids.<br />
Maybe it's reading together, sharing a cup of cocoa in the afternoon, walking the dog together, or working a puzzle. Or playing together, flipping through magazines, sharing your faith, or doing something kind for others. Or talking while you make dinner. Or creating new daily chores that will make things easier come holiday time.<br />
If you start today it could be a habit by Thanksgiving, and that much easier to keep going through the holiday rush.<br />
It could become an anchor of calm and routine when the kids schedules are anything but regular.<br />
It could become that moment when you end up talking about the important stuff.<br />
It could become what your child wants to do with you when they come home from college because it feels like home.<br />
As moms, we are the keepers of the traditions. Not just for holidays, but everyday. <br />
What's yours?<br />
<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-67708806155463805752012-10-29T06:00:00.001-05:002012-10-29T06:00:11.569-05:00Hands on Mom live events are now approved training hours for Tennessee DHS-licensed child care providers!<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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Check out <a href="http://www.pumpkinpatchesandmore.org/TNpmiddle.php">http://www.pumpkinpatchesandmore.org/TNpmiddle.php</a> to find a pumpkin patch, corn maze, hayride or apple orchard near you. <br />
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There is nothing like watching your kids run around a pumpkin patch or chase them through a corn maze that will put you in the Fall spirit. It brings out the kid in you and creates wonderful family memories. <br />
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Other local activites to take advantage of this time of year: <br />
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<li>Frist Family Festival Day @ Sunday, October 21st, 2012 - It's Free! 1:00–5:30 p.m.</li>
<li>Brentwood United Methodist Day School Fall Festival, Friday, Oct. 26th 4-7 pm</li>
<li>Pumpkinfest, Downtown Franklin, Saturday, Oct. 27th <a href="http://www.historicfranklin.com/events/pumpkinfest">http://www.historicfranklin.com/events/pumpkinfest</a></li>
<li>Cheekwood Scarecrows, Pumpkins and Trains until Oct. 31st <a href="http://cheekwood.org/Public_Programs/Cheekwood_Harvest.aspx">http://cheekwood.org/Public_Programs/Cheekwood_Harvest.aspx</a></li>
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-67018709280001107382012-10-16T06:00:00.000-05:002012-10-16T06:00:05.131-05:00Fun Fall Activities to get us Moving! Need some ideas to get you motivated and moving with your kids? <br />
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Here are our favorite physical activties for the Fall:<br />
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<li>Leaf hunt or nature walk </li>
<li>Pumpkin Patch or Apple Picking</li>
<li>Carve or paint pumpkins outside</li>
<li>Local Festivals or fair: walk from booth to booth, let the kids enjoy the bounce activites or petting zoos</li>
<li>Farmers Market: pick fresh produce and take it home to cook. Talk about the importance of eating healthy. </li>
<li>Parks and/or Playgrounds: try to encourage your child to try something new such as the hanging on the monkey bars or pumping those legs on the swings. </li>
<li>Have a picnic and then play chase...once your food settles of course. </li>
<li>Backyard BBQ with Games-Hula Hoops and Hop Scotch are favorites at our house. </li>
<li>Ride bikes or stroll the neighborhood-try to go a different route every time. </li>
<li>Walk your dog-they need exercise too! </li>
<li>If you are stuck inside? Play hide and go seek, have a pillow fight or build a fort. </li>
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The Leaves are dancing all around, all around,</div>
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Red, Yellow, Orange, falling to the ground, </div>
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The Leaves are dancing all around, all around!" </div>
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This fun song is sung quite a bit at our house around the Fall season. We sing it when we are getting stir crazy, and put dance moves with it, we sing it on our way to school and we sing it on walks to collect cool fall leaves. </div>
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The common theme is being active! Encourage activity. Kids learn from example so if you are active, then they are more likely to want to be active. </div>
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Research shows that kids who are more active are more likely to be academically motivated, alert, and successful. And physical competence builds self-esteem at every age. </div>
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At <a href="http://www.kidshealth.org/">www.kidshealth.org</a>, they have made it easy for us with a list of age-appropriate activities and ways we can easily incorporate exercise in our daily routine. Check it out and then get moving with your family! </div>
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amy crokerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18141393757098484687noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17609054112651629.post-91291729022002088322012-10-11T06:00:00.000-05:002012-10-11T06:00:02.214-05:00Upcoming Parenting Events from Daystar MinistriesDaystar Counseling in Nashville is best known by the books by two of their staff: <i><b>Raising Girls</b></i> by Sissy Goff and <i><b>Nurturing Boys</b></i> by Dave Thomas.<br />
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Battle Ground Academy in Franklin, TN is bringing these experts to campus for two special nights.<br />
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<b>Wednesday, Oct. 17, 6:30-9pm</b>: David Thomas presents <b>Nurturing Boys</b><br />
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<b>Wednesday, Oct. 24, 6:30-9pm</b>: Sissy Goff presents <b>Raising Girls</b><br />
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For information and registration ($25 for each session), visit <a href="http://www.battlegroundacademy.org/" target="_blank">www.battlegroundacademy.org</a> and go through the "Parents" header to "School Event Registration."<br />
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You won't want to miss these engaging, insightful programs on the emotional and intellectual development of boys and girls.<br />
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Click here for more information about <a href="http://www.daystarcounseling.com/" target="_blank">Daystar Counseling</a>.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0